Auto response from SpyderMSL (11:23:01 AM): the question becomes how could you not love a girl whose away message is this: cybertron anyone? Does that make her Arcee, the only female Transformer? And what makes a Transformer female or male? It's not like they have any parts that are different. I guess it's all in the coloring and the voice. Though I pose all these questions I'm not sure I'd like to find out first hand as to the inner workings of an Autobot... but if you have any speculations let me know.

NinjaCowboy37 (11:23:01 AM): to paraphrase he epic "kindergarten cop": boy transformers have a 24-pin gold plated cable and girl transformers have an I/O port
NinjaCowboy37 (11:23:32 AM)
: optimus has a coax, cause he's jewish